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Jim Morris

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Today, after weeks of pain, vet visit and painkillers, Alfie, our fifteen year old Shih-Tzu finally went over the Rainbow Bridge to join his mates of a lifetime.. A much loved little dog, life without him will seem so empty. Wife is in bits, and yes, I cried. God bless little fella, thanks for the fun,and may you rest in peace.

Sylvia Evans

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So very sorry Jim.   I have been here several times it doesn’t get easier . You did the right thing.  Hold on to your special memories. 
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An awful time Jim. Your little pal obviously had a lovely life with much love, it's hard to get through, especially when you have to make those decisions. We know they are the right ones but it doesn't stop the sadness. Take care.

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So sorry to hear this Jim. Dogs are such little characters. Sad times for you and your wife. X
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Linda Wilson

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The trouble with pets is that they don’t live as long as us. My sister lost her dog before Xmas, but now she is in love with her new jack russell puppy.  She and her partner are now constantly smiling.  Hope springs eternal……
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Heather Love

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Lots of sadness on the site at the moment and so sorry Jim re your lovely Alfie.  Our beloved pets live on in our memories, they give so much more than we can ever repay..

Brian J Mackay

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We have a drawing, at the top of the stairs, of our little dog, Ben. He was 17 when he departed for that doggy kennel in the sky and we still miss him, even after all these years. I often say "Goodnight, Ben" as I pass him on the way to bed. So, I understand your sadness and the emptiness you refer to. Walks are never quite the same.  All the best Bri
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Jim Morris

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Thanks for the kind and understanding words, Bri.
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Heather Love

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I thought I would share these lovely words - has brought me some healing when tough decisions have had to be made:- The Last Battle If it should be that I grow frail and weak and pain should keep me from my sleep,  Then will you do what must be done, for this -- the last battle -- can't be won.  You will be sad I understand, but don't let grief then stay your hand,  For on this day, more than the rest, your love and friendship must stand the test. We have had so many happy years, you wouldn't want me to suffer so. When the time comes, please, let me go.  Take me to where to my needs they'll tend, only, stay with me till the end  And hold me firm and speak to me until my eyes no longer see. I know in time you will agree It is a kindness you do to me.  Although my tail its last has waved, from pain and suffering I have been saved.  Don't grieve that it must be you who has to decide this thing to do; we've been so close -- we two -- these years, don't let your heart hold any tears.

Brian J Mackay

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What a tremendous poem, Heather, and so apt for the moment. I'll show it to Di later on today. Great poem, I'd say, Jim. Bri

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You have just made me cry.. can I copy and keep this please.?  Did you write to Heather ?

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Thinking of you Jim. I lost a beloved companion in May. Heather, what a lovely poem, very moving. Thank you for sharing x
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